hey y’all, I hope you’re having a great Sunday!
I think most of us can say we have dealt with someone who said something rude or didn’t treat you right and a lot of times we tend to let what others do effect how we act!
First off, hurting people hurt people. So when someone is constantly putting others down it’s because they probably aren’t happy with themselves. This stems from jealousy or pain they are going through in their own life.
~Don’t let what they say define who you are or your value.
~Don’t waste your time or energy worrying about what they have done or how to get even with them, Selena says it best~ kill them with kindness!
Take the high road instead of stooping to their level and choose to forgive. This will set you free from bitterness and allow you to look back knowing you did your part.
You can’t control what people do or say, you can only control how you respond!!
Sometimes the very best thing for us, is to let toxic people go, because reality is… what you may think is a set back is really Gods way of pushing you forward closer to your calling.
Know who you are and don’t ever compromise or let anyone else change that.
Always remember that if what you are doing is not coming from love it is not the right response.
1 Corinthians 16:14 ~Let all that you do be done in love.
Keep being you and not letting what others say change who you are called to be.
This is something I have had to walk out a lot this past year and I’ve learned that sometimes the people you think are in your corner don’t really have your best interest at heart. Moving forward and not letting my circumstances change how I act or respond to those people has definitely been a struggle but I’ve seen it push me to strive more and love greater!
xoxo~ alivia leigh
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